Crush -- Do you take them seriously?
Mood:  amorous
Topic: Teen Life
When you say you have a crush on someone, do you technically say: "It's just a crush..." But you usually daydream how will your marriage look like, your kids will look like, where will he take you after marriage?

Well, get ahold of yourself because those ar just fantasies. Nothing more, nothing less. Maybe you are totally obsessed. You just don't know it.

Take my advice: When you like someon don't show it too much that you haunt prince charming away. If you still want to be friends, just stay cool and don't exxagerate like you faint when he passes by or smiles at you. That when he talks to another girl you are thinking of making that girl invisible.

It's not a right thing to do. Not only will you shame yourself in front of others but also to your crush! That's more shameful!

That's why I say it's better to be friends than lovers...

Boy-Girl Bestfriends
Mood:  special
Topic: Memories
Why I posted this topic? I would like to relate to you my experiences about my bestfriends...

I used to have girl bestfriends. They were like my sisters since I didn't have one. They are with me when I hang out at the mall or just simple chats about what's going on with our lives.

But I was an adventurous girl. I asked myself: "Would boys be good bestfriends too?". My answer: YES. Why?

Though not all boys have similar reactions about having a girl as a bestfriend, it was because of this new adventure, I learned to respect boys.

I used to hate boys because they turn girls down in the way they act, think, dress or say. But my boy bestfriend was not that type. He was respectful, smart, understanding, and above all a great friend.

Hes supported me when I join interschool competitions or during exams we study together. Those memories made me feel really special. No friends had ever treated me like that.


And now, since I transferred to another school and he was way back in my old school, we still try to keep in touch. Lack of communication is like forgetting your friendship or giving less importance to it.

Our motto: That's what friends are for...